Caedmon is 21 today. Officially, legally in every way, an adult. Except for the occasional hotel or car rental that require a minimum age of 25. Or the male brain development that still happens into the early 30’s. But, even with the exceptions, I can’t escape the reality of time marching on.
He is in his last semester of college, and his job search will begin in earnest soon. If he decides a job is what he wants his next step to be. Usually, he thinks it is, but occasionally, he entertains other options. And I am so proud of Caedmon that he has paid his way through college and will graduate without the burden of student loans…so he CAN entertain other options.
Caedmon loves the Lord. He is bold about his faith and stands up for godliness in the very secular environments of school and work. But he is also very approachable. He is liked and well-respected by his extremely liberal boss and his “trans-identifying” classmate. His coworkers with whom he has little to nothing in common will readily share their life hopes and struggles with him, ask him about Christianity, and see him as a friend.
Several times now, Caedmon has taken time off of work to volunteer as a counselor at a Christian camp. The first time was only done with great prodding, but he came home from that experience surprised by just how much he enjoyed it. Now, he looks forward to each opportunity, and always comes home grateful for the chance to help little kids hear about Jesus.
Still, he most looks forward to the day he can be a husband and father. That day is not on the horizon, yet – and he is learning about patience and laying his dreams at the foot of the cross – but I am so thankful that, in a world that increasingly scoffs at the ideas of marriage and family and makes monetary success the highest goal, his values are secure.
This past year has flown by, but there have been occasional memorable moments. He broke his wrist snowboarding last February. He achieved a black belt rank in Tae Kwon Do in June. He has learned, more, the realities of financial obligations as he navigated car expenses, school expenses, and lost work due to his wrist. And even with the busy-ness of life, he makes time for his siblings, and for a pizza and movie night each week. He, forever and always (I hope), wants to talk long about life and politics and the Marvel Cinematic Universe.
As always, I am so proud of the young man Caedmon is. He works hard, has integrity, and truly wants to please the Lord in all he does. I love him more than words. And I like him. He is fun and genuine and kind. Being able to celebrate his birthday is a privilege I don’t take for granted, and I am truly thankful for these 21 years.