Nineteen, belatedly

As technology is wont to do, the code for my blog got glitchy and I needed to wait for my computer-smart husband to fix it for me. So, here I am, a few weeks late in writing all about Bethany at nineteen.

In some ways, Bethany has been the same girl as always this past year. Strong-willed. Lover of all-things sparkly or ruffly or shiny. Exceedingly confident. Kind of easily distracted, but also focused on the things that matter to her. But in light of her newly minted adulthood, other qualities have come to the surface – some good, like diligence at her job, a willingness to step out of her comfort zone to get questions answered, and motivation to pursue opportunities for growth in her Christian walk; and some more challenging…mostly related to wanting all of the freedoms of adulthood without fully recognizing the responsibilities.

Among her milestones this past year, she “graduated” from homeschooled high school, achieved her black belt in Tae Kwon Do, got her first ever job – which was full-time until this spring semester started, sewn multiple dresses (just for herself, for fun), and is now taking her first on-campus course as she explores a potential option for a career path.

She loves collecting anything chicken-related and has a box (or two, or three…) sitting in the attic filled with items for her one-day home, since in our current kitchen we have zero use or room for a cutting board with a picture of a chicken on it, or chicken salt and pepper shakers, among other things.

Bethany remains principled, even when it’s hard, and (mostly) fearless. Stubborn to a fault at times, but also often willing to heed advice after mulling over her options. She loves Jesus and prioritizes her time with Him each day. This road to new adventures has been tricky to navigate with her at times, but she is learning and growing and still faces most days with the same optimism she’s had since she was little.

I love this girl with my whole heart. So, though I’m a few weeks late, I’m still happy to celebrate the young lady she is and look forward to seeing all of God’s plans for her unfold in His time.

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