I started the day today with a bad attitude. Maybe it had something to do with the heat that makes me nauseous when I attempt to do anything. Maybe it was because of thoughts I seem incapable of taking captive, or restless sleep, or a messy house, or any of the other frustrations of life that I regularly cite as I plead with God for help…or, perhaps more honestly stated, as I accuse God of not being my ever-present help. Whatever the reason, though, I was not pleasant…and that’s putting it kindly.
By the time I got around to taking a shower, I really just wanted to hide from life. So, as I let the cold water (because the thought of taking a hot shower today was pretty much unbearable) drown out the noise of the day, I just cried, and asked God to help me see something other than the ugliness and imperfections of life…and of me.
I would like to say that, in an instant, my perspective changed. But, really, God has almost never worked that way in me. I stayed in the shower for as long as I could possibly manage (ie – until children became unruly to the point of needing oversight). My bad attitude didn’t dissipate into thin air. But, there were subtle changes…a moment of seeing good in a child in spite of failings, a remembering to hold my tongue rather than letting a harsh word slip out, a willingness to at least try to accomplish something instead of writing off the day. Mostly, though, there’s just been more of a peace about this day.
It’s not the “answer” I would most prefer…no great revelation or heart-breaking conviction or overwhelming sense of God’s presence…but something much more like a “still, small voice” that I could easily overlook. I don’t entirely understand why God chose to respond the way He did. But His response was enough for me for today. And I am thankful for that.