So, Ava’s seventh birthday came and went without me writing about it.  I’ve remembered at inconvenient times since then, so I finally made a note to remind myself to write something, because I don’t want to miss the chance to stop and think about the precious gift that Ava is.

Ava continues to reinforce her reputation as our putzy princess.  Not in a bad way, though.  She just never rushes through anything.  Although she is very quick on her feet, she takes her time with everything else.  And despite being incredibly capable at many things, she is happy to have others do things for her.  It does sometimes cross the line into laziness, but mostly I think that being “served” is just what communicates love to her.

Ava is an excellent student, and though she is no quicker at schoolwork than anything else, she works diligently until her assignments are completed, does everything with exceptional thoroughness, and rarely struggles with understanding.  Her quick mind is evident also in her ability to keep up with older siblings in board games, in her insightful observations, and her clever creations.

She also loves art and has a great eye for color and dimension.  I often can’t tell her artwork from that of her older siblings (none of whom I would consider to be deficient in artistic ability).

And as she gets older, there are new facets to her personality coming through.  Though (almost) always gracious and cheerful when playing a game, there is a competitiveness that is also coming through.  She has learned that she really prefers to win!  Ava also is becoming more sure of her convictions.  When she thinks she’s right, she stands her ground, which is still a bit surprising coming from our girl who has always been quick to relent in favor of just getting along.  Still, she remains a peacemaker in most situations, often preferring others before herself and making choices that promote peace in a situation.

Ava loves to snuggle close and still benefits greatly from a big hug when she’s having a hard time.  She’s sensitive, but also strong and able to move past hurts when she needs to.  She is funny and sweet and kind, and even at seven is still mostly endearing to those around her.  I love her so much and, even though I’m a little late, I greatly value the time and reflection it takes to note the things that stand out to me as unique and special at this seven year milestone.