Nathanael is an amazing kid…or, young man.  He is smart and athletic and multi-talented, but honestly, those aren’t really the reasons I think he’s so great.  What sets Nathanael apart are his selflessness, his thoughtfulness, his forthrightness, his gentleness.

As a younger kid, Nathanael would always take the smallest piece, do the extra chore, ask the deepest question, speak the hardest truth, give the most grace.  And he still does.  He looks out for those around him.  He swaps the laundry without being asked, and without announcing that he did.  He does chores for his siblings.  He admits when he’s messed up.  We offer him “paid” projects, and he’ll at times do them for free.  He hesitates to even communicate preferences because what he most prefers is for someone else to have their preference.  He still ponders deeply and problem-solves everything.  He’s often quiet…deadpan-funny…and brutally honest.  He plays games with his youngest siblings, which – believe me – requires an almost unbelievable amount of patience…and does so on a frequent basis.

I think the world of this son of mine.  I love that he is so consistent, principled, disciplined and kind-hearted.  I have treasured these 16 years with him and am beyond thankful for the gift he is to me and to our family.